For parenting couples who are tired of feeling like roommates.

Take the 15-minute quiz to get your personalized roadmap back to the BFF vibes you miss.

Take my free quiz to learn your relationship's PERSONAL ROADMAP to getting things where you want them to be.

Trying to fix a relationship without really understanding its unique issues is like trying to fix a car without knowing what kind of car you have.

In about 15 minutes you will learn:

  • Your relationship's strengths and growth edges, now that you're parents 
  • The hidden barriers that are quietly in the way of your closeness 
  • Which events in early parenting are actually still hanging you up (even if you haven't thought about them in ages)
  • How to get started, and where to go from there

 "The baby will bring you so much closer!" Uh. What?

For the vast majority of couples, parenting adds serious strain. You don't need me to tell you how. Eventually, the color drains from your connection and you find yourself in Roommate Mode: managing life's responsibilities without the joy and spark you used to enjoy.

So how to get out? The bad news: That's a personal question. There is no one-size-fits all answer, because every relationship is different. The good news: You're about 15 minutes away from knowing the answer FOR YOU. 

Drop your email. Open your inbox. Answer some questions.

Come away with a roadmap that fits YOU.

Your relationship isn't stuck, you just need the right plan.

Parenting couples often make the same mistake: thinking their relationship won’t get better. Sometimes they think the problem is their partner, that this is just “how things are” once you are parenting, or that fixing things will take way more time and energy than they have.

They fight when fights come up, but they don’t really solve problems. They talk about their partner, instead of to them. Resentments build, hurts add up, and eventually they hit “roommate mode,” where the connection is barely there and it feels like all they do is manage responsibilities.

The idea of fixing things feels totally overwhelming, because they don’t know what steps their relationship needs them to take or where to start. They need specific instructions for their path back to a thriving relationship.

 That's where this assessment comes in.

Answer some questions, and in about 15 minutes you can see what your relationship needs for you to rebuild your connection and get things back on track, one step at a time.

Who are you and how would you know what we need?

Hi! I'm Shelley Green. I've been a mental health therapist for well over a decade, and I specialize in perinatal mental health. That means I spend hours (and hours) talking to parents about their lives. One of the things we talk most about is their relationships. Because for SO MANY parents the changes to their relationship are one of the most difficult parts of their new lives as parents. Since this is such a large part of our focus, I have developed a perspective, tools, and strategies to support parents in preserving and improving their relationship after becoming parents, and I want to share those with you. I know your relationship can be as strong (and even stronger!) than it was before you became parents.

And it starts with... knowing where to start!